Initially I wanted to title this posting “How to use Tisha B’Av” or “How not to miss Tisha B’Av”, however those titles do not reflect the unique opportunity of that day.

The truth is, Tisha B’Av is the lowest day in the Jewish calendar, however precisely because of its gloomy nature it is the most suitable day to rectify all the falls that happened on that day, in this time of the year.  Any day when Hashem allows and helps us to get closer to him is a very good day, so why not celebrate Tisha B’Av?

It is a mistake to “suffer through” the day and think that we did what is required of us on Tisha B’Av.

The power of Tisha B’Av is exactly in the fact that it’s so low and deep.

Using the Springboard Dynamic, we can propel ourselves into astonishing ascent, towards  Tu B’Av, through the great opportunities of Elul, into the holiness of Tishrei and beyond!

To accomplish this jump we have to identify the reasons for the Destruction of our Holy Temple and our low spiritual state – reasons that are most relevant to us and rectify those flaws with Tefillah to the best of our ability.

Looking at the events that created and shaped the Tisha B’Av

(Incident with ten spies who caused the entire generation to die in the desert instead of inheriting Eretz Israel, Destruction of the First and the Second Beit HaMikdash)

- we see lack of Emunah ( belief  that absolutely everything is from Hashem),  idol worship, licentiousness, murder, and baseless hatred to another Jew.

None of those issues was completely rectified and they still remain and are  up to us to fix.

The grief over the destruction is only the first step. Grief and anguish over the loss of our intimacy with Hashem needs to be transformed into the constructive effort of Tikun – to fix the relationship between us and other Jews, relationship between us and Hashem, rectify what was broken on Tisha B’Av!

Article by Rav Yitzchak Schwartz provides great tools for this re-channeling.

May we be successful in doing our part and may Hashem bring our Redemption with joy and light, speedily, in our days,

Amen

Beit HaMikdash · Ish Tam · Moed · Prayer · Shekhinah · springboard · Tefillah · Temple · Tikkun · Tisha B’Ab

Compiled by Rav Rahmiel Drizin

R. Eli Mansour writes:The three-week period between Shiva Asar Be’Tamuz and TishaB’Ab is known as “Ben Ha’mesarim,” during which we observecertain practices to mourn the destruction of the Bet Ha’mikdash.The Arizal (Rabbi Yishak Luria, 1534-1572) wrote that it is properduring this period for “Hasidim Ve’anshe Ma’ase” (particularlypious and devoted people) to recite each day the “Tikun Rahel”section of the “Tikun Hasot” prayer, which us printed in manySiddurim. The “Tikun Rahel” contains many verses describing thedestruction of the Bet Ha’mikdash, and its recitation thus helps puta person in the proper frame of mind for this period of mourning.Many recite this service each night throughout the year as part ofthe “Tikun Hasot” prayer, but the Arizal held that it is proper torecite it as well every afternoon during the three weeks betweenShiva Asar Be’Tamuz and Tisha B’Ab. The recitation should takeplace from Hasot (midday as defined by Halacha) until the pointof “Minha Ketana” in the late-afternoon hours. This practice isalso mentioned by the Hida (Rabbi Haim Yosef David Azulai,1724-1806), in his works Yosef Ometz and More Be’esba.Hacham Ben Sion Abba Shaul (Israel, 1924-1998) ruled that oneshould not recite “Tikun Rahel” on days marking joyous occasions,such as on Friday afternoon, when we prepare to welcome theShabbat, as well as Shabbat itself. It should likewise be omittedon Rosh Hodesh Ab and on Ereb Rosh Hodesh Ab. On days whena person omits Tahanun due to a personal celebration, such asa Mohel (person performing a circumcision), a Sandak (one whoholds the child during circumcision) and the father of a child onthe day of a circumcision, one should omit “Tikun Rahel,” as well.The festive nature of these occasions requires omitting the somberrecitation of “Tikun Rahel,” which, as mentioned, speaks of thetragedy of the Temple’s destruction.Furthermore, one should not recite “Tikun Rahel” during theafternoon of Tisha B’Ab, when we begin turning our attentionaway from mourning and toward our hopes and anticipation ofredemption. Since at this time we focus on the prospect ofredemption rather than on the tragedy of the destruction, it isinappropriate to recite “Tikun Rahel.”One should not mistakenly think that this practice is reserved forKabbalists or great scholars. Reciting “Tikun Rahel” during thethree weeks is a most beneficial practice for all people, as it setsthe mood and puts one in the proper mindset for the period ofmourning. Reading these verses can be very inspiring and bringa person to a greater appreciation of the tragedy of the Temple’sdestruction, and to a more profound sense of loss. It should benoted that during the three weeks in Yeshivat Porat Yosef, afterthe first learning session in the early afternoon all the students siton the floor and recite “Tikun Rahel.” This is thus a practice thatall people should observe, in order to enhance one’s awareness ofthe immense tragedy of the Hurban (destruction).

See here the complete Tikun

Here are Kavanot of Amidah Beyn HaMetzarim

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